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GAY MARRIAGE IS LEGALIZED IN MINNESOTA

Wednesday, May 15th, 2013

GAY MARRIAGE LEGALIZED IN MINNESOTA

 

SAME-SEX MARRIAGE IN MN

Effective August 1, 2013, Minnesota will recognize marriage between same-sex partners. This is a huge advance in the fight for marriage equality, and it solves a number of significant problems.  One of the most significant problems it solves is how to dissolve relationships of same-sex partners when a legal marriage occurred in another state.

SAME-SEX DIVORCE IN MN

Same-sex divorces bring a special set of problems to the table.  Many of these relationships are long-standing, with assets that have been commingled for many years, without the protection of marriage.  These assets will require special treatment in order to avoid an inequitable result.  Similarly, debt in these relationships may well be one-sided, and it may well be necessary to look at the entire relationship, rather than just at the married portion iN order to reach a fair settlement.  Courts will be asked to move the standard valuation date (which is the date of the first regularly scheduled pre-trial hearing—most commonly, the Initial Case Management Conference).

CHILDREN AND GAY MARRIAGE

Additionally, Courts will be asked to take a much broader look at the meaning of family as same sex parents are able to fully legitimize their children through marriage.

It’s a brave new world.  I, for one, am extremely happy to be part of the solution!

Jennifer Moore

www.moorefamilylawMN.com

PACER CENTER WORKSHOPS: SPECIAL NEEDS / DISABLED CHILDREN IN MN

Wednesday, April 24th, 2013

PACER CENTER WORKSHOPS:

SPECIAL NEEDS / DISABLED CHILDREN IN MINNESOTA

 

PACER located in the Minneapolis, MN area; is holding several workshop events in May for those responsible for some aspect of the care of special needs / disabled children. The relevant web site can be
accessed HERE.

The two workshops are as follows:

Quality of life  to be held May 14, 2013 6:30PM – 8:30PM. Emmy Mastel, from Prudential Special Needs will lead the discussion.  Please note that this is not a solicitation
but a presentation of  information. You can register for this workshop online HERE

Guardianship and conservatorship to be hlc  May 28, 2013, 6:30PM – 8:30PM.  Attorney Lori Guzman will lead the discussion.  You can register for this workshop online HERE

Both presenters are parent to a special needs child and both events are at the PACER Center:

8161 Normandale Blvd.

Minneapolis, MN 55437

 

Thank
you for your attention.

 

Thomas Moore

Office
Manager

www.MooreFamilyLawMN.com

SPECIAL NEEDS, MEDICAID, AND PAYING FOR HOUSING

Tuesday, April 16th, 2013

SPECIAL NEEDS, MEDICAID,

AND

THE RIGHT TO CHOOSE WHERE YOU LIVE

 

The United States Court of Appeals for the Fourth Circuit has issued a potentially landmark decision in Pashby v. Delia,  upholding the rights of disabled North Carolina residents to choose where they want to
live.  An article can be found  in Healthlaw.org HERE.

The plaintiffs in the suit were challenging North Carolina’s refusal to pay for personal care attendant services through Medicaid unless such services were provided in an adult care home.  The plaintiffs claimed that the State’s policy unfairly shuffled them into institutional care settings rather than permitting them to remain in their own homes, a violation of the Americans with Disabilities Act.  The State had claimed that an Adult Care Home was not an institution, but the Court rejected this claim.  The Court also rejected the State’s claim that budgetary constraints were a legitimate reason to require such services to be provided only in an institutional setting, such as an adult care home.  The Court stated that, “Although we understand that the North Carolina legislature must make difficult decisions in an imperfect fiscal climate, the public interest in this case lies with safeguarding public health rather than with assuaging North Carolina’s budgetary woes.”  The Court’s decision can be found HERE.

Jennifer Moore

www.MooreFamilyLawMN.com

 

IS THE DIVORCE RATE REALLY FIFTY PERCENT?

Tuesday, April 2nd, 2013

THE DIVORCE RATE:  IS IT FIFTY PERCENT REALLY?

 

The Your Tango website HERE, known for its somewhat risqué content, has an interesting article  today on what the divorce rate really is and how to measure it.  Not to spoil things, but what do the marriage rate and the divorce rate have in common? That article on marriage and divorce is HERE

 

Thomas Moore

Office Manager

 

www.MooreFamilyLawMN.com

MACMH (Minnesota Association for Children’s Mental Health) ANNUAL CONFERENCE APRIL 28 – 30

Wednesday, March 20th, 2013

MACMH (Minnesota Association for
Children’s Mental Health)

ANNUAL CONFERENCE APRIL 28 – 30, 2013

 

The
Minnesota Association for Children’s Mental Health (MACMH) is holding its annual mental health conference in Duluth, MN on April 28-30, 2013.  We have attended this conference many times and have always been struck by the expertise of its presenters, the variety of attendees and the dedication to helping children, especially special needs / handicapped children.

The conference is useful for anyone with involvement with special needs or handicapped children – teachers, other educators, social workers, other 2professionals and parents and family. You will find here workshops that are helpful no matter where you are from, not just Minnesota.

You can find out more about MACMH and register for the conference HERE.

Thomas Moore

Office Manager

www.MooreFamilyLawMN.com

Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder (FASD) Rally the Minnesota Capitol Tues., March 19

Thursday, March 14th, 2013

Governor Dayton to kick off FASD Day at the Capitol this Tuesday, March 19! 

On Tuesday, March 19th people from around the state of Minnesota will gather at  the Capitol to urge legislators to invest in preventing Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorders (FASD) and the programs that support Minnesotans living with this  disability.  The rally will be kicked off at 10:00 a.m. in the Capitol  Rotunda by Governor Mark Dayton.  Governor Dayton is a strong partner in  our prevention and systems-change work.  We are very excited with the  line-up of rally speakers that include inspirational advocates who are living with the daily challenges of FASD,  Senator Melisa Franzen and Representatives Tina Liebling and Yvonne Selcer.  It’s critical that the  FASD community attend to demonstrate our strong support.  We hope to see you there.  It’s not too late to register.  Just click here.

Can’t come?  Then CALL your legislator and say “I am a member of the FASD community and I join the hundreds of my fellow Minnesotans urging our legislature to invest in preventing FASD and supporting programs that help people living with an FASD lead healthy and productive lives.   As your constituent, I hope I can count on your support of House File 689 and Senate File 408 . This bill provides funding for programs that serve pregnant women who are chemically dependent which will reduce FASD.”

If your legislator is chief author of HF689 Liebling, as well as the co-authors Masin, Savick, Selcer, Fritz, Fischer, Mullery, Clark, Abeler please thank them for their leadership and support on this issue.  On the Senate side, please thank chief author of SF408, Franzen, as well as co-authors Senjem and Sheran. 

If you need to find out who your legislator is, please click here and use this easy tool.

As always, thanks for your support, and please call us at 651-917-2370 if you have questions!

Sara Messelt

Executive Director

Minnesota Organization on Fetal Alcohol Syndrome (MOFAS)

2233 University Avenue, Suite 395

St. Paul, MN  55114

T:  651-917-2370

F: 651-917-2405

www.mofas.org

What is school like for youth with FASD?

Tuesday, February 26th, 2013

WHAT IS SCHOOL LIKE IF YOU HAVE FASD?

 

Fetal Alcohol Syndrome and Divorce

I work for a family law attorney in Minnesota.  We often encounter families where there is a special needs child.  One disability is FASD / fetal alcohol spectrum disorder.  Here are some activities from MOFAS / MN Organization on Fetal Alcohol Syndrome regarding fetal alcohol and its effects on the child.  I hope you find them informative.

MOFAS

MOFAS   is the Minnesota Organization on Fetal Alcohol Syndrome.

Fetal Alcohol Syndrome / FASD – What it is

FASD, quoting the MOFAS web site FAQ’s, :…stands for Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorders and is an umbrella term describing the range of effects that can occur in an individual whose mother drank alcohol during pregnancy. These effects may include physical, mental, behavioral, and/or learning disabilities with possible lifelong implications. There are many terms under the FASD umbrella, including these medical
diagnoses:

  • Fetal Alcohol Syndrome (FAS)
  • Alcohol Related  Neuro-developmental Disorders (ARND)
  • Alcohol Related Birth Defects (ARBD)
  • Partial Fetal Alcohol Syndrome (pFAS)”

FASD and School

What is school like for someone who has fetal alcohol spectrum disorders?  You can view a short video from  MOFAS here:

FASD Day – a Chance to Learn about Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder

MOFAS has announced FASD Day at the Minnesota state Capitol on Tuesday, March 19, 2013. You can learn more about how FASD impacts youth.  You can register for FASD Day here:

Thomas Moore

www.MooreFamilyLawMN.com

SPECIAL NEEDS FAMILIES NEED SPECIAL FAMILY LAWYERS

Tuesday, February 19th, 2013

SPECIAL NEEDS FAMILIES NEED SPECIAL FAMILY LAWYERS

TWO SPECIAL NEEDS CHILDREN IN MINNESOTA

Many years ago, my brother (who had two special needs children in Minnesota) and his wife divorced.  As part of their divorce, they had to work closely together in order to resolve issues related to the ongoing medical needs of their, the allocation of waivered services provided under TEFRA (Tax Equity and Fiscal Responsibility Act) that paid for the personal care attendants (pca’s), housing modifications needed for the children, and therapies not covered by medical insurance.  Parenting was complicated by the fact that pca services were provided in only one home, and as the children’s condition worsened, it became difficult to transport the children for parenting time.  Once the children qualified for social security benefits, my brother and his former wife needed to determine who would be the children’s representative payee.   Both of them had to coordinate their efforts in able to ensure that the children had appropriate Individualized Education Plans through their schools.  Additionally, they had to work with educators, social workers and care providers to ensure that the children’s care plans were appropriate and that benefits would continue uninterrupted.

SCHOOLS AND DHS FEES

At one point, the school district (in Minnesota) decided that it could not provide curbside busing service to my oldest niece, who was blind and in a wheelchair.   My brother and his ex-wife needed to work together to ensure that busing was reinstated so that she could get to school.  The effort required them to file a complaint with the Minnesota Department of Education, and it was not resolved until the school district was forced to mediate.

At another time, the Minnesota Department of Human Services (DHS) miscalculated the parental fee my brother owed to the government, because the children received TEFRA benefits, at the same time the fee was quadrupled.  With the help of an attorney, he was able to resolve almost all of the issues with respect to the miscalculation.

DIVORCED FAMILIES WITH HANDICAPPED CHILDREN

Not only do special needs parents who are divorcing have to figure out custody and parenting time, child support, spousal maintenance, and an equitable division of property and debt, they also have to figure out how to allocate the services needed by their children.  They have to figure out how to meet the extraordinary financial needs of their children.  And, if they disagree about their children’s needs, they have to figure out a way to mediate those differences so that the children are not harmed by the conflict between their parents.  Your experience outside Minnesota will of course involve different agencies, but the issues will remain.

Jennifer Moore

www.MooreFamilyLawMN.com

MARRIAGE EQUALITY AND DIVORCE

Friday, February 8th, 2013

DIVORCE AND
MARRIAGE EQUALITY

DIVORCE AND MARRIAGE

Not too many people come to my office seeking a divorce, because they are unhappy with the division of labor in their marriages, but frequently, when I dig a little deeper into the case, I do find support for the position that women would rather be divorced and self-reliant than housewives.   Men, on the other hand, would prefer to have a housewife than be divorced.

In this article in Slate, new research is discussed that confirms my gut feeling that if a woman cannot have an egalitarian role in the
marriage, she will end the marriage in favor of self- reliance.

DIVORCE AND HUSBANDS

When husbands come to me with questions about spousal maintenance, often they are outraged that they would have to pay a monthly sum to a woman who could get a job.   The answer from the Courts is, “You married this problem.”   In other words, the fact that your spouse has been unemployed for a significant period of time may be the product of your preferences during your marriage.

Although I can argue to the Courts that the choice of the spouse not to work was not about my client’s choice, but rather some unilateral decision by the other spouse, it is more difficult to explain why my client didn’t file for divorce before the other spouse’s jobless status
became an artifact of the marriage.

DIVORCE AND EQUALITY

So, it does not serve anyone’s best interests to allow the marriage to become less than egalitarian.

Jennifer Moore

www.MooreFamilyLawMN.com

SOCIAL MEDIA, FACEBOOK AND DIVORCE IN MINNESOTA

Wednesday, January 30th, 2013

SOCIAL MEDIA, FACEBOOK AND DIVORCE IN MINNESOTA

 

Working for a family law firm exposes me frequently to the pitfalls, in a divorce, of the internet, especially social media such as Facebook.  The December 2012 issue of Bench & Bar, the official publication of the Minnesota Bar Association, www.mnbar.com carried an interesting article (Social Media Discovery   http://mnbenchbar.com/ )  by Heidi M. Silton and Courtney Blanchard, on the topic. While written for attorneys,  the article is interesting to a layman first of all for showing the attention paid by lawyers to the topic, and, second for what it contains.

FACEBOOK, SOCIAL MEDIA, AND DISCOVERY

The article focuses on discovery.  Briefly stated, discovery is the pre-trial phase in a lawsuit in which each party can obtain evidence from the opposing party by means including requests for answers to interrogatories, requests for production of documents, requests for admissions and depositions, and subpoenas.  Sometimes, discovery is done formally through documents captioned and titled “Interrogatories,” “Requests to Produce Documents,” “Requests for Admissions,” and “Subpoena”.  These days, it is far more often for discovery to be done informally by letters between attorneys.

Silton and Blanchard write, “Courts have established that Facebook and social media information, even if guarded under privacy settings, is discoverable if it is shown to be material and relevant to the claims or
defenses.”  That means that you may be required to provide access to your social media accounts to your spouse, the other parent or his/her attorney.  This might be by accepting a friend request from the other
side, or more preferably, you may be permitted to provide paper printouts showing your social media activity.   However… if you think you will be able to save yourself from having embarrassing, private, or incriminating appear in  your divorce case, think again!

SPOLIATION, SOCIAL MEDIA, AND LEGAL DISCOVERY

Silton and Blanchard discuss spoliation, the legal doctrine which permits courts to issue sanctions if you destroy evidence.  Deleting posts from your account, whether those posts are or might be subject to discovery;  could be spoliation, and the penalties of spoliation can be quite severe.  Yes, you can lose custody of your children if you destroy evidence!  Jennifer Moore, of Moore Family Law, PA, says, “Many of my clients already have access to the other side’s social media accounts either through a friend or relative, an assumed name, or in their own name. There is a good chance that you will be caught if you delete comments.”

Moore continued, “Parties to litigation should be cautious of what they post and what they delete.  Additionally, watch those friend requests!  You may be unwittingly accepting a friend request from the other side to your litigation.”  Moore notes that although the issues are unsettled, it is likely that an attorney who sends you a friend request without your approval or a Court Order would be subject to discipline.
“Attorneys are not permitted to communicate with the opposing side if they have an attorney.  A friend request is probably exactly the type of communication that is prohibited under the Rules of Professional
Responsibility.

Interesting issue!  What strikes me is that this is not settled law.  Like everything in life, you take your chances when you go to Court.  Furthermore, while it’s oversimplifying to declare, “once on the internet nothing is ever deleted,:”  it is true that, once on the internet, you can be subject to sanctions if you don’t disclose it during discovery.

Thomas Moore

Office Manager

www.MooreFamilyLawMN.com