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We believe that it’s not truly a failed marriage if you can learn something from the experience.

After your first marriage, think back to what went wrong, and the role you may have played. Reflecting on your first marriage could help you determine how you could prevent those mistakes in the future.

  1. How to take responsibility for your mistakes.
    We’ve said it before, and we’ll probably say it again, one of the most important things you can do after divorce is to take a hard look at what went wrong, and how you contributed to the problems. Understanding what you did wrong, could help prevent making the same mistakes in the future.
  2. How to accept someone for who they are.
    When you’re young, it’s easy to meet someone who you like them for the most part, but you also notice a few things you can’t stand. It’s easy to think that you can either look past their flaws, or possibly even change the person, but trust us, that rarely works out. The best rule of thumb is to go into a relationship believing that the person won’t change, but loving them and their flaws.
  3. How to communicate with your partner.
    Whether your first marriage was plagued with not enough communication, or miscommunication, learning how to communicate with your significant other is one of the most important things in a relationship. If you can communicate with your partner, you can solve most problems the two of you may encounter.
  4. How to forgive.
    Both forgiving your significant other, and learning to apologize, are necessary to have in a successful marriage. The two of you won’t be perfect, and you will both do things that will annoy the other person, but learning how to forgive is imperative. Trust us, if you can forgive your ex after a divorce, you can learn to forgive the person in your next relationship.
  5. How to ask for what you want out of a relationship.
    Divorce can teach you to notice what you need out of a relationship, and how to ask for it. There may have been something in your first marriage that you wanted but never received. This new relationship is a way for you to have a relationship which includes the needs and wants that you have.

At the end of the day, the best advice we can give is to be open and honest with your partner. A new relationship provides a fresh start, so why not start it with open and honest communication. We promise you’ll be happier and feel more fulfillment if you are.

If you’ve gone through a divorce and are in a second marriage, we’d love to hear what advice you have for people who are starting over. Let us know your top tips in the comment section below.

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